| 41 | 41 | 41.不要夸大其辞 滥用夸张的辞语是不明智的。这种辞语既背真理,又使人对你的判断心存疑虑。说话夸大其辞,等于是把赞美的词儿到处乱扔,这暴露出你知识欠缺,品味不高。赞扬招徕好奇心,好奇心产生欲望。等后来人们发现你言过其实时,常常会因此感到他们原来的期待心受了愚弄,于是生出报复心理,将赞美者和被赞美者一古脑儿踏倒。所以谨慎的人知道节制,与其言过其实,不如言之未足。真正的卓越非凡十分罕见,所以你不宜滥下褒辞。言过其实等于是一种说谎,可能会毁坏别人原本以为你品味高雅的印象,或者甚而至于毁坏你智慧过人的名声。 | 41 Never Exaggerate. It is an important object of attention not to talk in superlatives, so as neither to offend against truth nor to give a mean idea of one’s understanding. Exaggeration is a prodigality of the judgment which shows the narrowness of one’s knowledge or one’s taste. Praise arouses lively curiosity, begets desire, and if afterwards the value does not correspond to the price, as generally happens, expectation revolts against the deception, and revenges itself by underestimating the thing recommended and the person recommending. A prudent man goes more cautiously to work, and prefers to err by omission than by commission. Extraordinary things are rare, therefore moderate ordinary valuation. Exaggeration is a branch of lying, and you lose by it the credit of good taste, which is much, and of good sense, which is more. |